Then perhaps you need a guide written especially for making us moms feel a little bit more sane!
My friend (both in real-life and blogland), Mary - known to many as "Owlhaven" - has written her first book A Sane Woman's Guide to Raising a Large Family and it is available for pre-order on Amazon now! (Her second book is already in its final edits!)
Mary is one of those people who just inspires. She has ten kids, and adores every one of them. She homeschools (or at least did - until they graduated) ALL of them. She has a garden that gardeners envy. She is frugal, and witty, and beautiful, and giving. She loves God and has a great marriage. Want to know more?
Go order her book!